Wednesday, April 27, 2011
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a statement as simple as this carries alot to it.
we can talk all we want, but if we dont walk the talk, it really shows
i was talking to someone just the other day and we touched on the topic of priorities in our lives.
its funny when you can tell someone how important someone or something is and yet not show any importance and priority.
it really shows huh? people can claim dat its important, but at the same time it can be delayed till they are free and they feel its convenient for them to handle it. In case if you are wondering, i'm talking about conflicts and missundertandings.
If we truly treasure a frienship, when conflict arise, what do we do?
natural thing is to solve it. but in some cases in which i'm experience and also observe, people say this or that friend is very important to them and yet when you see them getting either into a missunderstanding and conflict with that someone, they choose to just leave it till they feel convenient to solve it.
i cannot brain this, really.. teach me pls?
I don't know, but i feel for me, as long as there is a conflict or missunderstanding, it should be solved right away, yes given the fact people need time to cool down, let the fire in them subside and stuff, and then deal with it, but then again, i believe if we are mature enough, we should be able to handle it well.
either ways, conflicts can have two possible outcomes, you either grow closer after the conflict is resolved, or you stay apart and keep you distance... you decide with the other person.
JapBoyRockS blogged at 11:49:00 AM 2 comments
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'actions speaks louder than words'
a statement as simple as this carries alot to it.
we can talk all we want, but if we dont walk the talk, it really shows
i was talking to someone just the other day and we touched on the topic of priorities in our lives.
its funny when you can tell someone how important someone or something is and yet not show any importance and priority.
it really shows huh? people can claim dat its important, but at the same time it can be delayed till they are free and they feel its convenient for them to handle it. In case if you are wondering, i'm talking about conflicts and missundertandings.
If we truly treasure a frienship, when conflict arise, what do we do?
natural thing is to solve it. but in some cases in which i'm experience and also observe, people say this or that friend is very important to them and yet when you see them getting either into a missunderstanding and conflict with that someone, they choose to just leave it till they feel convenient to solve it.
i cannot brain this, really.. teach me pls?
I don't know, but i feel for me, as long as there is a conflict or missunderstanding, it should be solved right away, yes given the fact people need time to cool down, let the fire in them subside and stuff, and then deal with it, but then again, i believe if we are mature enough, we should be able to handle it well.
either ways, conflicts can have two possible outcomes, you either grow closer after the conflict is resolved, or you stay apart and keep you distance... you decide with the other person.
JapBoyRockS blogged at 11:49:00 AM 2 comments
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