Monday, April 11, 2011
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it was quite an interesting topic,
the person said,
do you realise that nowadays for the younger generation, we build our own personal dreams and lives first till we're like kinda established and then in the end just add in a life partner into our lives. Compared to our parents generation. they both come together and build thier dreams together.
wow..when i heard that, i really ask myself..am i gonna be in the same category as what my friend had just mentioned. Am i gonna be the one who will just have my own dreams and work towards it and then when the age and time is right, just add someone in my life and get married.
o.0!
kinda materialistic when i think of it. Yes people nowadays, especially girls look for security, for stability in the financial area. Given the fact which girl doesnt wanna get married to a man with strong financial backings. its totally understandable..But then again, if i look it at this way, wow-ness, that would really cut out alot of girl choices in my life, as for me..i want someone who will go through thick and thin with me even before marriage, not only considers me when my financial groundings are stable.
The status issue will always occur in a relationship.
one will be richer than another,
But this is it, is the more blessed one willing to get down to the level of the other?
Or the more blessed one will just sit and wait for the poorer one to get richer then only considers it?
haha.. really something to think about..
As for me, i really pray and wish for someone that come down to my level, dah la i'm not born with a silverspoon, if my other half tekan me with money issue..confirm the relationship's not gonna be very fun-ning! haha..
Money is something, but it isnt everything! =)
JapBoyRockS blogged at 11:09:00 PM 0 comments
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talked to someone the other day,
it was quite an interesting topic,
the person said,
do you realise that nowadays for the younger generation, we build our own personal dreams and lives first till we're like kinda established and then in the end just add in a life partner into our lives. Compared to our parents generation. they both come together and build thier dreams together.
wow..when i heard that, i really ask myself..am i gonna be in the same category as what my friend had just mentioned. Am i gonna be the one who will just have my own dreams and work towards it and then when the age and time is right, just add someone in my life and get married.
o.0!
kinda materialistic when i think of it. Yes people nowadays, especially girls look for security, for stability in the financial area. Given the fact which girl doesnt wanna get married to a man with strong financial backings. its totally understandable..But then again, if i look it at this way, wow-ness, that would really cut out alot of girl choices in my life, as for me..i want someone who will go through thick and thin with me even before marriage, not only considers me when my financial groundings are stable.
The status issue will always occur in a relationship.
one will be richer than another,
But this is it, is the more blessed one willing to get down to the level of the other?
Or the more blessed one will just sit and wait for the poorer one to get richer then only considers it?
haha.. really something to think about..
As for me, i really pray and wish for someone that come down to my level, dah la i'm not born with a silverspoon, if my other half tekan me with money issue..confirm the relationship's not gonna be very fun-ning! haha..
Money is something, but it isnt everything! =)
JapBoyRockS blogged at 11:09:00 PM 0 comments
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